Yes, the last line says it all, “Act now. Your time is limited.
Never will it be easy, but it is the way that you approach it that makes all the difference. I was discouraged after I got out of college and started sending out hundreds of mailers only to get rejection letters and lackluster interest. So I found myself questioning my style, “maybe I needed a new one,” my medium, “maybe I should try something else,” my process, etc. I spent hours trying out new things, watching videos, looking for an answer. Unfortunately I spent a couple of years doing this until I realized that I just kept going back to what I knew because it was what I loved and that my only real problem was that it was hard, a lot harder than I thought it would be. But I decided that if I was going to do this I needed to keep at it and work through the doubts and the frustration. And while the doubts and the frustration never really goes away I have managed to carve out a career over the years and continue to love drawing and painting despite the blood, sweat, and tears.
You’re right Toni and I think most of us go through that stage when we think we can somehow purchase the solution. It doesn’t matter if it’s exercise, blogging, or creativity — it’s never quite as easy as we think it should be. Part of it, I think, is the fact that there are so many “solution sellers” out there promising us the easy fix, but it’s really just a matter of sitting down, doing the hard stuff, and paying your dues. And you’re right that we don’t need a new style or try to follow a prepackaged system, we just need to keep at it. In the end we may discover that the reward was in the journey itself, not the final destination.
I lost the joy of painting after 15 years. I looked around and could not find one more bit of happiness in what I was doing, so I quit, for three years. I don’t recommend this to everyone but it was the best thing I ever did. I figured out what it was that gave me joy in the beginning and what it was that had creeped in to squish it all. One day it just felt like I needed to get the paints out again, I had something exciting to say, and am doing my best work ever, minus all the things that pulled me down.
I’m happy that you were able to eventually find your way back to your art Diane. I think we just have to follow our heart, and if it’s telling us that we need a break for whatever reason, then it’s something to consider. One of the things I’ve noticed about the creative spirit (or at least my own) is that it occasionally goes into hibernation, but sooner or later it always comes back and that need to create returns. I think there is a big difference between this type of creative sabbatical and putting off our work because we simply don’t feel like doing it that day. I’m glad to hear you have been able to rediscover the joy in your art again and wish you all the best.
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Excuses, procrastination, mood swings the name of the game for me! Yesterday I was on top of it all and feeling I knew where I wanted to take my art and most importantly I knew I could take it there. Now today I am glum and things do not seem so clear cut; these ups and downs are the nature of the creative’s soul; it is what makes us tick. Perhaps we need the doubts and excuses for reflection self critiques etc.. to be able to move on – best ashar
Sadly, I think these things are the name of the game for most of us. I think you’re right Ashar that maybe these type of mood swings are simply the ebb and flow of the creative process. One day we think we’re finally on the right track, and the next dat we find ourselves second-guessing everything that we’ve done. At least after experiencing this emotional roller coaster over and over, I realize that this too shall pass, and tomorrow will inevitably bring more emotions that I probably won’t understand. Such is the creative life :)
Great post! The ebb and flow of life is the same with our passions. Some days we will experience peaks and some days valleys. Looking back to see the failures and uncertainties we have all experienced makes the successes all the more sweet. Learning to work through the tough times is important. It makes us stronger and pushes us to excel through the good times. Drew, you summed it up well by pointing out that we only have so much time…make it all count.
You’re right Kurt that it’s hard sometimes to take a step back and get a view of the bigger picture and not get caught up in the short-term setbacks. Finding a way to somehow push through and keep going when things fall apart is not always easy to do, but it’s absolutely essential if we are going to survive long-term as a creative artist.